LadySpade5806
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Yes, I know this sounds horrible, but I need advice.
I will try to give the facts needed to answer my question. I lived in Kansas and I was in a relationship for almost 3 years, my boyfriend (Father A) at the time signed my son's birth certificate when he was born even though he is not the father. We broke up, it was ugly, he made some bad choices (I was forced to call the cops at one point). I moved to Oklahoma a little over a month ago and married the biological father (Father B) of my child. I am wanting to go to court to have the birth certificate changed to list my son's actual father (B) and remove Father A. Since we are married are we (my son and I) still not considered residence of OK since it has not been 6 months of us living in the state? Basically if I am married to a resident of OK then can the judge order me to move back to KS to be closer to Father A if it is decided that he should stay o nthe birth certificate. (My son is 2.5, Father A has been the father figure for the first two years, as I understand it that gives him parental rights and some judges may say he is to stay o nthe birth certificate.) Father B had no idea he was the father until 5 months ago when we did a DNA test to make it definate.
Hopefully this made sense, I know it all sounds horrible and twisted. Father A has not tried to keep in touch and rarely answers my phone calls when I try to have my son talk to him. He has not filed or requested visitation.
I will try to give the facts needed to answer my question. I lived in Kansas and I was in a relationship for almost 3 years, my boyfriend (Father A) at the time signed my son's birth certificate when he was born even though he is not the father. We broke up, it was ugly, he made some bad choices (I was forced to call the cops at one point). I moved to Oklahoma a little over a month ago and married the biological father (Father B) of my child. I am wanting to go to court to have the birth certificate changed to list my son's actual father (B) and remove Father A. Since we are married are we (my son and I) still not considered residence of OK since it has not been 6 months of us living in the state? Basically if I am married to a resident of OK then can the judge order me to move back to KS to be closer to Father A if it is decided that he should stay o nthe birth certificate. (My son is 2.5, Father A has been the father figure for the first two years, as I understand it that gives him parental rights and some judges may say he is to stay o nthe birth certificate.) Father B had no idea he was the father until 5 months ago when we did a DNA test to make it definate.
Hopefully this made sense, I know it all sounds horrible and twisted. Father A has not tried to keep in touch and rarely answers my phone calls when I try to have my son talk to him. He has not filed or requested visitation.
