I'm seeking a divorce from my husband of seven years and we have two children (2 & 4 yrs old). I haven't filled as of yet because I really don't know how to proceed. The grounds will be cruel treatment and we currently reside in New York State and still live together. I am a stay at home mom and desire to move back to my home town in Indiana for emotional and financial support, is that permissible? I do understand that he will want to see his children, however I pretty much raised them on my own and he just covered the financial part of it. Can you suggest a plan for visitation? I know he's going to fight me on this.