paintgram
New Member
- Jurisdiction
- South Carolina
My Mother was diagnosed in 2009 with Alzheimers. Let me preface this with there is NO money and that is not what this is about. My shady sisters have pulled several fast ones. My Mom is now in a facility in OH, I took her there. The sisters wanted to leave her alone in SC with no family to advocate for her. They had gone so far as to find a nursing home. I called and stopped it. I went to SC, got her and took her to OH where 2 of her 4 surviving children live. Right after my brother passed in 2013 they went in and made my brother-in-law POA and my sister his wife. I knew nothing and I am the oldest and the one that always took care of everything. My Mother remembers nothing of this. It started getting ugly, the sister were trying to keep my brother and I from getting medical info on Mom. Also, they were not going to visit. I was going 2 to 3 times a year. I live in PA (550 mile drive one way) They went after my brother passed and took things that they shouldn't have ..her wedding bands, she literally cried over it and said they stole her rings. I went down and to even out the field, had her make my surviving brother POA & executor of her will in 2014 and I felt iffy about that. I just found out that these two sisters went down again in Oct and removed all that I did and made themselves POA and executor. The lawyer that did it knew better. My Mother was hallucinating & seeing babies & kids.
Here is what is happening and it may seem trivial to you all, but it isn't to me. When I went down to get her and take her to OH, because my diphead brother -in-law (he is a POA too) told me I had 2 wks and then they were placing her in a home in SC where she had NO family, My son and I changed the locks as she had given keys them to everyone. Everything went fine while I went thru hell transporting her with meltdowns to OH. I left belongings in her house and things she promised me, plus things my kids and grand kids had made for her along the year, believing I was going back. Well, my sister had the cousin change the lock and they are cleaning out my Mother's house, I have belongings there, I left my diamond band, clothing and clutter ( the kid things) paintings I did in HS. They are now de-cluttering the house. I am devastated and they will not respond. They have blocked me. That house holds memories from my life that are irreplaceable. What accountability do they have? I don't want money just what is mine in memories & clutter & some furniture. Please tell me they have some kind of accountability. How would you like a cousin clearing out your Mother's house. I have crazy running the show and I don't know how this happened. I am the oldest and the one that always stepped up and took care of it all. Is there any hope at all?
Here is what is happening and it may seem trivial to you all, but it isn't to me. When I went down to get her and take her to OH, because my diphead brother -in-law (he is a POA too) told me I had 2 wks and then they were placing her in a home in SC where she had NO family, My son and I changed the locks as she had given keys them to everyone. Everything went fine while I went thru hell transporting her with meltdowns to OH. I left belongings in her house and things she promised me, plus things my kids and grand kids had made for her along the year, believing I was going back. Well, my sister had the cousin change the lock and they are cleaning out my Mother's house, I have belongings there, I left my diamond band, clothing and clutter ( the kid things) paintings I did in HS. They are now de-cluttering the house. I am devastated and they will not respond. They have blocked me. That house holds memories from my life that are irreplaceable. What accountability do they have? I don't want money just what is mine in memories & clutter & some furniture. Please tell me they have some kind of accountability. How would you like a cousin clearing out your Mother's house. I have crazy running the show and I don't know how this happened. I am the oldest and the one that always stepped up and took care of it all. Is there any hope at all?