not sure what to do

[onedergirl07]

i am engaged to someone i met on the internet... however my child is in dhr custody right now... i am trying to get them back in my custody..will the fact that my fiance is someone on the internet keep me from getting my child.. i mean eharmony and match i know for a fact have people with children meeting and marrying people on the internet.. however they may not have dhr in the midst... i do not discuss my relationship with my fiance with them but i'm quite sure at some point i may have to point out whenever get married.. i'm not sure what to do.. my fiance will have a background check if need be, but i don't think that's fair to either of us..like i said people meet and marry of the internet everyday.. what if they try to say he's a child molester and/or try to prevent me from getting my child back.. i am doing everything they said for me to do as far as compliance with what they said they took my child for... i have been doing that since 2006.. so what do i do now.. thanks

 

[Duranie]

where is the childs father? If you plan on moving away with the child for this internet man, yes this could cause problems. You are right when people meet off the internet everyday but its a little different when you have a child and have already been investigated by social services.

Do you know this guys background? You need to put your child first from here on out. Have you bothered to do any court research to see what his background is? Depending on why your child got taken in the first place, DHS may or may not put you under scrutiny with this new guy.

 

[onedergirl07]

the father is here and there, not reliable.. my fiance will come from overseas to live with us, i will not be moving away for a while.. he will be checked out by immigration before he comes here... i was under a lot of stress so i have ended up in the psyche ward for a week here and there but i always bounce back.. dhr wants me to maintain my medicine which i have done since 2006 but once your child is in the system it is hard to get them out... my fiance doesn't mind being checked out by them, but i don't want dhr to single me out and delay me from getting my child back.. i have always put my child first.. i just dont want dhr to interfere like that