NeedHelp111
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Hi, thanks in advance for whoever answers this post!! Right, so i better get to the details.
My story:
I met a man on a forum who i started to date. Ironically, he only lived a few minutes away from my house.
I was dating this 18 year old man only about a month or so back, and we had a very steady relationship for about 3 and half weeks, (i know - not very long :angel), however, until our relationship came to a very bitter end. During which, i had sent him numerous messages on his phone, pleading for him to come back to me, because i was totally heart-broaken. I am a bit considerably older, at 23, turning 24 very soon. During this period, i went to his house, which his lodger answered, and i asked if he would please get him, whereas he told me to leave.
I felt utterly betrayed, but i kept my cool. He asked me to leave, however i did refuse, and he phoned the police. I willingly left the house after the police had spoke to the members of the house, and got details of what happened, which i gave exactly in thsi order. They ''put'' the incident down to purely domestic, and i was not charged, but they advised me never to go back, and i haven't.
Then a during the last week and a half, i started to contribute more time to the forum i had met him at: He felt, and made it known, that he thought i was harrassing him by remaining there, during which i noticed him going about other members and obviously saying bad things about me. I felt he was abusing his ability to ''win people over to his side about our personal details,'' so i asked him in a public message to stop doing this, and then used that again to say i was harrassing him; on top of that, previously because he never answered my phone messages back, i left him a paersonal one asking him why he was ignoring me, to which he left a complaint with moderators.
The moderators did not take his side on the issue, so he left in anger, and this is where it gets more disturbing. Because he felt ''displaced'' by the apparent non-existence of any of the moderators sticking up for him, he went onto YouTube and posted a video with all the personal messages i left him. In a very elaborated video, he slandered certain details about the information (fine details, but still fabricated or made some of it up in anger) and also posted my e-mail address, my name, and asked people to spam me!!! Seriously, this is what he did!
I was absolutely heart-broaken, and now i am absolutely angry that he is now taking liberty of knowing personal details about me and now using them to deform my stature. And he never removed the video, so it certainly was a personal attack on me, and he used the forum moderation as a basis for his intented moves.
I am very scared that my name and personal e-mail being flouted in this manner is not only a danger to my safty, but also a possible door for my reputation to be destroyed. Is he allowed to do this?
I feel very suicidal over this, but i decided to keep my chin up about these turn of events. previously to this, he kept saying he was going to create the site at YouTube, and when he did, i threatened to do him for abuse of slander and also of that of privacy. But he said ''try it,'' in those exact words, which then he deleted most of his posts he made to deform my character... luckily i saved one of the main posts he made on my computer.
So i ask, is he allowed to do these things, and if he isn't, what laws is he breaching?
Thank you very much
HelpNeeded111¬
My story:
I met a man on a forum who i started to date. Ironically, he only lived a few minutes away from my house.
I was dating this 18 year old man only about a month or so back, and we had a very steady relationship for about 3 and half weeks, (i know - not very long :angel), however, until our relationship came to a very bitter end. During which, i had sent him numerous messages on his phone, pleading for him to come back to me, because i was totally heart-broaken. I am a bit considerably older, at 23, turning 24 very soon. During this period, i went to his house, which his lodger answered, and i asked if he would please get him, whereas he told me to leave.
I felt utterly betrayed, but i kept my cool. He asked me to leave, however i did refuse, and he phoned the police. I willingly left the house after the police had spoke to the members of the house, and got details of what happened, which i gave exactly in thsi order. They ''put'' the incident down to purely domestic, and i was not charged, but they advised me never to go back, and i haven't.
Then a during the last week and a half, i started to contribute more time to the forum i had met him at: He felt, and made it known, that he thought i was harrassing him by remaining there, during which i noticed him going about other members and obviously saying bad things about me. I felt he was abusing his ability to ''win people over to his side about our personal details,'' so i asked him in a public message to stop doing this, and then used that again to say i was harrassing him; on top of that, previously because he never answered my phone messages back, i left him a paersonal one asking him why he was ignoring me, to which he left a complaint with moderators.
The moderators did not take his side on the issue, so he left in anger, and this is where it gets more disturbing. Because he felt ''displaced'' by the apparent non-existence of any of the moderators sticking up for him, he went onto YouTube and posted a video with all the personal messages i left him. In a very elaborated video, he slandered certain details about the information (fine details, but still fabricated or made some of it up in anger) and also posted my e-mail address, my name, and asked people to spam me!!! Seriously, this is what he did!
I was absolutely heart-broaken, and now i am absolutely angry that he is now taking liberty of knowing personal details about me and now using them to deform my stature. And he never removed the video, so it certainly was a personal attack on me, and he used the forum moderation as a basis for his intented moves.
I am very scared that my name and personal e-mail being flouted in this manner is not only a danger to my safty, but also a possible door for my reputation to be destroyed. Is he allowed to do this?
I feel very suicidal over this, but i decided to keep my chin up about these turn of events. previously to this, he kept saying he was going to create the site at YouTube, and when he did, i threatened to do him for abuse of slander and also of that of privacy. But he said ''try it,'' in those exact words, which then he deleted most of his posts he made to deform my character... luckily i saved one of the main posts he made on my computer.
So i ask, is he allowed to do these things, and if he isn't, what laws is he breaching?
Thank you very much
HelpNeeded111¬