First off- I have attorney not too experienced in probate. Who is understandably very busy. I need a 2nd 3rd etc opinion!
So Ill make this as short as possible.
I am recently appointed executor of mom's estate. I am the sole beneficiary by will.
Mom was 79yr old non English speaker at death.
Last year:
Very ill elderly Step-Dad signed PoA to his son before his surgery (Son didnt visit for 9 yrs). They/son removed nearly all funds from joint bank- Left mom with little income. Son prevents access to dad at nursing home. Says dad didnt want anyone to visit. Son returns out of state and leaves dad alone. (Last request by dad to me was to "PLEASE" visit him.) Dad dies. (FYI Step son despised my mom. Removed and used mom's soc sec and personal info without her permission. Another long story)
Son and his attorney withhold all funds, pension, life ins paperwork for 5 months after death of dead. This after requests from mom and myself. Refuses to talk to mom. Son says all assets are his as his father left a will saying so (Mom never informed about will contents). I get home in mom's name. Son says get conservatorship and he'll turn over some funds. Mom dies before conservatorship.
Months later, son files for probate (Dad) and is accepted. Files petition to back out of being executor. Court says no. Son wont file bond his probate is stalled.
My big question is: What percentage of the marital cash are due to my mother's estate? My attorney says half. Another attorney says all and I should administer both estates together???
Im confused and desire some insight before I have my attorney proceed with letters. Half would make things go easier and half is better than nothing.
Thank you
So Ill make this as short as possible.
I am recently appointed executor of mom's estate. I am the sole beneficiary by will.
Mom was 79yr old non English speaker at death.
Last year:
Very ill elderly Step-Dad signed PoA to his son before his surgery (Son didnt visit for 9 yrs). They/son removed nearly all funds from joint bank- Left mom with little income. Son prevents access to dad at nursing home. Says dad didnt want anyone to visit. Son returns out of state and leaves dad alone. (Last request by dad to me was to "PLEASE" visit him.) Dad dies. (FYI Step son despised my mom. Removed and used mom's soc sec and personal info without her permission. Another long story)
Son and his attorney withhold all funds, pension, life ins paperwork for 5 months after death of dead. This after requests from mom and myself. Refuses to talk to mom. Son says all assets are his as his father left a will saying so (Mom never informed about will contents). I get home in mom's name. Son says get conservatorship and he'll turn over some funds. Mom dies before conservatorship.
Months later, son files for probate (Dad) and is accepted. Files petition to back out of being executor. Court says no. Son wont file bond his probate is stalled.
My big question is: What percentage of the marital cash are due to my mother's estate? My attorney says half. Another attorney says all and I should administer both estates together???
Im confused and desire some insight before I have my attorney proceed with letters. Half would make things go easier and half is better than nothing.
Thank you