My sisters children have been taken away by ex with help from dcs

[kjhowell]

I could write forever about my sister's ex boyfriend and how crazy he is but I will just explain the current problem with him. When my very young sister finally decided to leave him with their two boys it was because he had gotten into the buisness of stealing and selling cars he also was dealing drugs they lived with his mother and father because he couldnt hold a job. She left him and was bullied by his lawyer into agreeing to joint custody. She followed their agreement allowing the boys to go there during their visits. He went to jail a few months later but she allowed the boys to visit their grandparents who took the boys to see their dad in jail against her wishes. When he got out of jail he went to the department of human services with claims that my sister had molested her boys. They were taken away from her in a heartbeat somehow the dcs was convinced that what he said was true even though the woman that interviewed the 2 and 3 year old boys wasnt qualified to do that kind of interview. So now it has been a year and a half she has had limited supervised visitation in which the dcs has allowed the father to be present even after the judge ordered him not to be within sight of her and the boys there has been several hearings on visitation and such but their trial date keeps getting put off. Since she lives in another county the county DCS where she lives has investigated and closed all cases against her and the county DCS where he lives just keeps opening new cases even though she hasn't been alone with the boys since this began. She has taken and passed lie detectors her husband has too they have been questioned and interviewed over and over . The boys have been examined and interveiwed. This has been a night mare for our family and im afraid that even if she wins this trial the DCS is gonna continue to wage war against her . What can be done? Who regulates these people the two counties dont seem to be working together one is on my sister's side one is on his.

 

[Duranie]

Does your sister have an attorney? If not she needs one.

So is it the sisters husband that is being accused of molesting? Does he have anything on his background at all that could be damaging?

There are 2 sides to every story remember. I am sure the kids father has his own regarding your sister.

Who has the kids now, are they in foster care or with family?

 

[zier3764]

Leave it to a lawyer to tell you that you need an attorney. What a bunch of bull. Don't ever go to a lawyer unless it is your absolute last option. No lawyer will ever help you or care about your situation. They all just want money and couldn't care less about the quality of service you receive because they get paid either way. Make sure you do tons of personal research and never rely on a lawyer to tell you the truth. Most times they tell you the most nightmarish stories to keep you in fear and retain their services. There's a reason why there a million lawyer jokes; they're all true.