lisareecexx
New Member
i had my boy bailey on 20.09.07 and from the day he was born social services wer involved as i was in care as i grew up. so they wanted me to go to a mother and baby unit for 3 months so i did. and in this place they checked i could care for him and things like that after 3 months i returned home to my dads house with bailey as i had completed the assesment, then i had a community assesment left to do.. most things were goin well apart from me and babys dad did not get on he was very controlling and social services could see that and he really messed my head up all the time. on my 18th birthday i ended up goin to the pub and bailey was with me in my care and i got drunk and then went home, no harm at all came to him and now i am older i understand that was an awful thing to do, tho i am glad he is fine. then baileys father got bailey removed from my care on 01.07.08 in to his after that incedent as he told social services he would sue them if any harm came to bailey. then andy (baileys father) got done by r.s.p.c.s for beatin a dog and done for selling drugs and drivin without a licence all this ended up in a jail sentance and bailey was removed from him and put in to foster care, i saw bailey about once a week and new it was comin to an end as social services said he was being adopted out. i am not and have not been on drugs social services are awware that i used to smoke weed sometimes but that neva had any impact on the way i cared for my son and i no longer do it now anyway as i have learned from my mistakes. i recieved a letter today stating that ther would be a hearing on 26.07.10 about adopting bailey out. i have no contact with his father and do not do drugs or drink, i have completly changed from how i was when i was 17-18 i am now 20 an capable of caring for me and my boy, i was jus wondering if there is anything i can do to get him back in my care i thought he had been adopted but turns out today he is not, what can i dooo??
