my ex wife has been having my pc monitored without my knowledge

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robertbizzell

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My exwife has been having my pc activity monitored without my permission or knowledge. She says my son has been accessing porn while at my home. she didnt alert me of this or report it yet kept it private for over a month until i recieved a letter saying it would be used against me in a upcoming custody case. Can she have my pc monitored like she has it was done after our divorce? and isnt it child abuse or neglect if she didnt report it or notify me of it but allowed my son to possibly be accessing this for over a month before she notified anyone only though to use it against me.
 
Can she have my pc monitored like she has it was done after our divorce?

Obviously she CAN do it if she IS doing it.

But how, exactly, do you think she is monitoring your computer? Have you had a computer technician inspect your computer for keyloggers or other types of remote access or do you just think she's doing it because she says there is some porn on your computer? She could just be playing with your head.

isnt it child abuse or neglect if she didnt report it or notify me of it but allowed my son to possibly be accessing this for over a month before she notified anyone only though to use it against me.

Jeez. Notch back the drama.

You have an upcoming custody case?

Talk to your lawyer.
 
My exwife has been having my pc activity monitored without my permission or knowledge. She says my son has been accessing porn while at my home. she didnt alert me of this or report it yet kept it private for over a month until i recieved a letter saying it would be used against me in a upcoming custody case. Can she have my pc monitored like she has it was done after our divorce? and isnt it child abuse or neglect if she didnt report it or notify me of it but allowed my son to possibly be accessing this for over a month before she notified anyone only though to use it against me.

I assume you're asking if it's legal or illegal for her to monitor your PC without your knowledge. Oh I'm sure it's probably illegal if she put some kind of app or something on your computer. But do you have proof that she did this? Is there something on your computer that monitors activity? How would she put it on there? Is she remote accessing it as asked?

I agree she's probably messing with you. She probably caught your son watching porn and asked him if he does it at your house and he said yes. Does she have proof that he is doing this at your house?

How is that child abuse?
 
Mr. Robert Bizzell, if you didn't know your son was watching "porn" at your home, you've done nothing wrong.

However, if the child's mother informed you he was watching "porn" at your home, you have a duty to investigate the matter, and take corrective action to protect the child from such harmful activity.

I'd address the matter of my child watching "porn" first and foremost, before I'd bother with the child's mother and her illicit activities towards you.

Remember, its ALWAYS what's in the best interest of the child, not the parents, but their child.
 
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