i found out i was pregnant just after i split up with my boyfriend, i told him and he wanted something todo with my child.
About a week or two later he didnt he kept saying it was someone elses. i no it wasnt because he was the only one i had slept with.
About two months to my due date he started ringing me up and texting me saying that he wanted something to do it my child, but where he hadnt been there through out i didnt want him to, so i said no, i then kept geting voicemails and texts (basically hate mail) it wasnt threatening.
When i had just given birth (i was allowed to txt when they were stiching me up) i text him telling him how much he weighed what time i had had him and sent him a pic, so i started to keep in contact with him and told him when i am well enough i would meet him and he could see my son.
He kept pestering me about it he thought that i was going to come out of hospital and go and see him straight away, a week later i met up with him with my son. and he kept asking stupid questions like 'is he potty trained'!!! i thought how could i of been so stupid as to get with someone who didnt know that, anyway on that visit we agreed that he would see my son every other week.
But he kept texting me and ringing me saying it was unfair and he wanted more acess e.t.c i gave him plenty warnings that if he kept on doing that, then i wouldnt let him see him. maybe thats wrong and my son will hate me for it in the future but im doing what i think is right at the moment, since then i have blocked all access, changed my phone but still kept the other one so i could recieve any txts.
He is still trying to contact me i have now had him calling me names and a few threats. i have kept every txt and voice call and e-mail he has sent me. the only problem is, is that he keeps threatening to take me to court i no(hope) he wont.
He used to do dodgy business by conning people out of money and selling guns etc. but i have no prof of this. i really dont want my son to be around any of that. caould you please help me on what my rights are, can he see my son? would he be able to take him away from me?
His name isnt on the birth certificate no ones is because i knew this would happen. please help me. sorry about the long story but in order for me to ask, you need the know the whole of it.
please help me
About a week or two later he didnt he kept saying it was someone elses. i no it wasnt because he was the only one i had slept with.
About two months to my due date he started ringing me up and texting me saying that he wanted something to do it my child, but where he hadnt been there through out i didnt want him to, so i said no, i then kept geting voicemails and texts (basically hate mail) it wasnt threatening.
When i had just given birth (i was allowed to txt when they were stiching me up) i text him telling him how much he weighed what time i had had him and sent him a pic, so i started to keep in contact with him and told him when i am well enough i would meet him and he could see my son.
He kept pestering me about it he thought that i was going to come out of hospital and go and see him straight away, a week later i met up with him with my son. and he kept asking stupid questions like 'is he potty trained'!!! i thought how could i of been so stupid as to get with someone who didnt know that, anyway on that visit we agreed that he would see my son every other week.
But he kept texting me and ringing me saying it was unfair and he wanted more acess e.t.c i gave him plenty warnings that if he kept on doing that, then i wouldnt let him see him. maybe thats wrong and my son will hate me for it in the future but im doing what i think is right at the moment, since then i have blocked all access, changed my phone but still kept the other one so i could recieve any txts.
He is still trying to contact me i have now had him calling me names and a few threats. i have kept every txt and voice call and e-mail he has sent me. the only problem is, is that he keeps threatening to take me to court i no(hope) he wont.
He used to do dodgy business by conning people out of money and selling guns etc. but i have no prof of this. i really dont want my son to be around any of that. caould you please help me on what my rights are, can he see my son? would he be able to take him away from me?
His name isnt on the birth certificate no ones is because i knew this would happen. please help me. sorry about the long story but in order for me to ask, you need the know the whole of it.
please help me
