The stipulation of settlement ordered my ex (in addition to the income executed child support and child care) to reimburse me for all unreimbursed medical expenses for our child, a certain amt each summer towards camp fees, $ each month into the eductaion IRA college savings account, and name our son as irrevocable beneficiary to $125,000 life ins policy. Beacuse these things are not income executed he has not done any of them! I have finally began a "civil" relationship with him and I dont want to start a new court battle, but how can I enforce these provisions? The stipulation of settlement dates back to 1998 and it has been incorporated in the divorce decree from Supreme Court. Can I petition in family court? Or should I use my lawyer? My current spouse urges me to do something soon before the arrearages grows to an insurmountable number. I hate court but I need these monies soon! WHat do you suggest? SHould I just call my lawyer and initiate something or what?

