- Jurisdiction
- Virginia
Hello,
I don't know if there is a case or not. Here is my situation:
Back in 1998 i had a gf before i went into the army. With no response to any letters for a month in basic training i recieved a letter and sonogram saying i was to be a father. I proceeded to marry her as soon as possible to get insurance and be a part of the childs life. I didnt want to ne a dead beat father. This woman made my life in the army hell resulting in me endinding my career and becoming a family man near her family. She got into pills and i left her for her emotional abuse and her pill addiction. I fought 2 years to get custody while volunteering to pay child support because again i felt it was an obligated responsibility. I then recieved primary guardianship. O did not recieve child support for 18 years. This week i find out through a dna test i was never this childs biological father. After 18 years of sacrifice trying to do the right thing on my own. I would have never married this woman, had to ruin my credit for years or any of that if i known. Is there any actions that can be held against the mother. She denied the daughter a choice to ever know her biological father, the biological father never had a choice of knowing he had a daughter, i felt an obligated responsibility that was never truly mine of raising this child alone.
Thank you
I don't know if there is a case or not. Here is my situation:
Back in 1998 i had a gf before i went into the army. With no response to any letters for a month in basic training i recieved a letter and sonogram saying i was to be a father. I proceeded to marry her as soon as possible to get insurance and be a part of the childs life. I didnt want to ne a dead beat father. This woman made my life in the army hell resulting in me endinding my career and becoming a family man near her family. She got into pills and i left her for her emotional abuse and her pill addiction. I fought 2 years to get custody while volunteering to pay child support because again i felt it was an obligated responsibility. I then recieved primary guardianship. O did not recieve child support for 18 years. This week i find out through a dna test i was never this childs biological father. After 18 years of sacrifice trying to do the right thing on my own. I would have never married this woman, had to ruin my credit for years or any of that if i known. Is there any actions that can be held against the mother. She denied the daughter a choice to ever know her biological father, the biological father never had a choice of knowing he had a daughter, i felt an obligated responsibility that was never truly mine of raising this child alone.
Thank you