I have an ex-wife that is taking me back to court and a currant wife that we are going through divorce, I have an attorney for the currant divorce but none for the ex. I am very frustrated with currant case because I don't get strait answers from my attorney so I turn to this site for help. I would love to hire a different attorney and have contacted some others, my response from them has been "well in the real world of family law, I don't think what you are asking is possible and I will take your case but I need a retainer of $ 10,000.00". I have already spent $8,500 on an attorney that said he could help me, I don't think I want to spend money on any that don't think they can do anything. I had to borrow the money to pay attorney fees, I don't know what to do. I feel so discriminated against because I am a man. I need help but don't know where to turn.