My ex has tried with minimal success to control every aspect of my life, from dictating to me how money should be spent, to what type of car I should purchase - and when would be an acceptable time to do so. After much therapy, I have successfully stopped allowing him to control everything. My last issue, may be slightly petty, but I really am feeling terrible guilty, and could use some advice. My ex feels that if he picks the girls up for his bi-monthly visitation, that I should pick the girls up after the visitation. Not much of a big deal, and I generally would not have a problem, however, There is no parental participation at all, from him, with the exception of him taking the girls on these nights. So, I am doing everything myself. He refuses to pay his portion of medical co-pay, extra curricular, etc. He never calls the girls to see how they are, and he has verbally abused the sitter to the point that she was on the verge of kicking the girls out of her daycare. I have had to clean up that mess, along with other issues, like him deciding to register the girls in another daycare, without my knowledge, even though our separation agreement states that I have sole decision in that area. I have also allowed him to store his various recreation vehicles in my garage, rent-free, which he has no problem coming and checking on whenever he wants.
Our agreement states nothing regarding picking up and dropping off the girls, so I guess my question is, am I obligated in any way to pick the girls up? or is it his responisbility to do so?
Our agreement states nothing regarding picking up and dropping off the girls, so I guess my question is, am I obligated in any way to pick the girls up? or is it his responisbility to do so?
