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this is my first time here sorry if i make a mistake. my 7 week old daughter passed away 6 weeks ago. my husband started drinking and using drugs. he became emotionaly abusive to me and our 2 year old son. i made him leave. he called dhs on me and lied dhs came to my house drug tested me and i was clean so dropped it. then he started comming over saying he was going to kidnap our son and go to mexico where he is from. i myself have apast drug history but have been clean for about 2 years. he said he could use my past to get our son, is that true, also my husaband has been screaming and cursing me in front of our son. finaly i had enough i told him not to come back and he went off on me saying all kind of stuff about i needed to do what ever he said or he would take our son and i would never see him again. i went the next morning and got a order of protection for me and my son. we go to court july 2 infront of the judge for the order of protection. i do not know what to expect at this court hearing. i just do not want anything bad to happen to my son and for sure i do not want my husband to run with him. what do i need to do to make sure this does not happen. i do not want to punish my husband i understand he is grieving for our daughters death but i do not want him to hurt our son or me. i do not want him back. what do i say or do to make him only get supervised visits and to stay away from me. also, i do not know if we are legally married, wwe had a ceremony signed the papers but 3 days later he told me he was still married to his wife so i never turned in the marriage license. i am scared can someone tell me what to do, i can not afford a lawyer and i think my husband got one.
