How can I stop my phiance's ex-wife from using her kids against us?

[birdy1975]

We pay child support, stick to the schedule and all she does is bad mouth me to her 2 kids. It has been distruptive, confusing and abusive at times, she constantly thretens to take us back to court, or will keep the kids from their dad until I meet with her. What can I do legally to keep her threats, verbal abuse and torment towards me to stop?

 

[birdy1975]

I need Help!!!

 

[Duranie]

Yes, stop talking to her and let Dad deal with her. You are not party to this. Have dad grow a backbone to her and keep her inline.

 

[birdy1975]

My phiance' does stick up for me and I do not get in the way, his ex-wife goes out of her way to be where I am and to make a scene...

 

[ohiogranny]

Find out if you have grounds to ask for a restraining order.

At custody exchanges, either stay home or have a witness to Mom's antics. A camcorder may be a deterrent, too.

She can't keep the kids from Dad if they have a court order.

(And the word is "fiance".)