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[smcenery89]

well to start off im 19 my boyfriend is 17 soon to be 18 in may lived with me in ny for about 6 months and in january I moved to pennsylvania and he chose to move with us. now mind you his mother never even tried to contact him wheb he was living with me in ny and shes a complete nuitcase threatening me and my whole family and talking down to us because she thinks we forced him to move up he to PA with us now she is rwfusing to sign papers for him to register in school and threatening to get me arrested and file him as a runaway..is there nething she can really do to him or me being that he is so close to being eighteen and what can we do besides emancipation to get him in school? he's on winter break and has to go back in a few days so court is not quick enough at this time..pleaaasseee someone help me I don't want to send him back to that psycho path and possibly lose him asever bc of her

 

[Duranie]

This boy is still a minor and you could get into BIG trouble. Until he is 18 he cannot leave the house if his parents disagree. You could be charged with a variety of crimes. If his parents or mom call the police and the police find the child with you, you will probably get arrested.

 

[Scooterdog]

Duranie could be right.

I look at the parental concent. The guy lived with you for six months, now mom has a problem. Does she realize, she could be charged as well?? Bring that up to her.

I would asume you had consent, but you need to check your states laws to make sure(Where you were living,)

 

[smcenery89]

his parents both agreed nor did they even call him or try to get him to come home..and im actually pregnant now and im not going through my pregnancy alone. but now that we've moved out of state and are trying to start our life over his mother chooses to not answer her phone or sign any papers or let him come home to them in ny to finish off school unless he leavs me 4 good..so now we're stuck. my mother is going to the school up here in PA tomorrow to see what can be done but it looks to me that emancipation is the only way. hope everything works out for the best. but being that im pregnant and they want to make him leave me ..is there anyway I can fight this? someone please help me

 

[Scooterdog]

He'll be 18 before you can get him emancipated.

Not sure what to tell you, you have a very long road ahead of you(life in general) bringing a child into this world at such a young age.

Why can't your b/f get his own records?

The school can't deny him an education. Records or not.

 

[smcenery89]

his records aren't the problem registering him in school is because his mother won't sign the affidavit saying its ok for him to go to school up here in pa so the woman told me he can't go to school there and to go back to ny..emancipation is the only option bc up here ur parents have rights of you until your 21 I need to get him into school I mean he's 4 months away from graduating and his mother is ruining that for him..god am I glad im done with highschool

 

[Scooterdog]

His mother has abandonment issues.

What communist country are you in? 21???? the hell!

 

[rubekysildemone]

I'm in Florida, so I'm not sure how it works up there, but unless you're an official drop out, which typically actually includes a form of withdrawl papers, kids are required to go to school. So his own mom could get into a lot of trouble if he didn't go to school. Of course, if he's that close to finishing, he could always just go to a community college and get a Diploma equivalent or a GED, around here you can sign up for those as an independant without parental assistance as long as you provide at least 50% of your own needs.