Since when does a parent have to sign over the rights to one's own child? Sounds like scare tactics to me. It sounds like there is a lot going on here we don't know, is there? I wish your husband good luck as child custody is never an easy issue.RobinL said:My husbands ex wants him to sign over patrnity rights so her new husband can adopt the child they have together. What should we do? There is no extra money for an attorney? The ex told him that HE has to do it.