bigsexyuno
New Member
I am at a loss. I live in Georgia and my 9 year old daughter lives in CA. Up until last year, my daughters' mom and I have coexisted fine in her flying out to see me on all school breaks. I pay for the flight both ways. About 4 months ago. I relocated from New York to GA and still haven't found work. My child support is falling behind. Her mother kept her from me for 7 months until this most recent trip where she was with me for 6 weeks. Upon her return home, her mother is stating that she won't be coming back and that I should have never left CA. 2 years ago and she doesn't want to lose time with her on her school breaks etc. All this she is pulling after she agreed to things before I moved. There was never a custody hearing so,nothing is set in stone and I just can't afford an attorney until I get a good job. I am trying to find something part time and return to school as well. My daughter and I get along well and she cries and is so upset for weeks after returning home from a visit. My daughters' mother is trying to brainwash her now and my daughter has called feeding me this rehearsed junk of "Why did you leave me?", " It hurts me that you did this to me, etc." and it is so not my daughter talking. It is obvious that her mom is trying to turn her against me. She has a step mom and sister who love her dearly and she loves too and we are just at such a loss. I have tried legal aid, modest means, etc. and am just at such a loss. I feel like without a ton of money, I can't get to see my daughter. I mean what about the holidays etc? I am crushed. Any help would be appreciated. Thank You!
