What a mess! My husband had an affair (one time fling) with a co-worker who is claiming she is pregnant with his child. She also had claimed to be a lesbian... He didn't use a condom, so there is a slight possibility. She has called our house repeatedly after I have told her that we are staying together and we will handle his responsibility to this child together. She has given him love notes recently at work " I can't work here anymore because I miss you too much, and I realize you're with your wife" and "I had everything planned in my head how this would go, but since you're with your wife it isn't going to go that way" and so on. He has handed over these notes to me.
I have documented every phone call, every conversation from her. She called from the bar drunk when she's with child... and is trying to cause problems, like " Tell Mike thanks for sitting in my room with me last night" when I have already accounted for his whereabouts fully. She has not given us any medical documentation supporting her pregnancy. She showed him 2 home tests that she brought from home, which someone else could have taken. Did I mention she's a convicted felon on Parole??? Yes, when my husband makes a mistake, its a BIG one. He has expressed that if she is pregnant, which is a BIG if... he would like for us to seek sole custody... he doesn't want his child growing up with a mother like that.... I would rather raise this child with him in a healthy loving environment then a constant battle ground because she's upset he didn't leave me for her. What do you think are the chances that we could win? We are both educated, own a home and car, have good careers, and haven't been in trouble with the law. She is on parole and will be still when the baby is born, lives at home with parents, has a low paying job, no car, and is a party girl. Any advice would be wonderful. Anything I should do to prepare? Thanks!!
I have documented every phone call, every conversation from her. She called from the bar drunk when she's with child... and is trying to cause problems, like " Tell Mike thanks for sitting in my room with me last night" when I have already accounted for his whereabouts fully. She has not given us any medical documentation supporting her pregnancy. She showed him 2 home tests that she brought from home, which someone else could have taken. Did I mention she's a convicted felon on Parole??? Yes, when my husband makes a mistake, its a BIG one. He has expressed that if she is pregnant, which is a BIG if... he would like for us to seek sole custody... he doesn't want his child growing up with a mother like that.... I would rather raise this child with him in a healthy loving environment then a constant battle ground because she's upset he didn't leave me for her. What do you think are the chances that we could win? We are both educated, own a home and car, have good careers, and haven't been in trouble with the law. She is on parole and will be still when the baby is born, lives at home with parents, has a low paying job, no car, and is a party girl. Any advice would be wonderful. Anything I should do to prepare? Thanks!!