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Sorry about the personal nature of this post!
This guy I was dating for about a month was kind enough to buy me some groceries twice over a period of about 10 days. He stated that he was doing so to help me since I lost my job in early January. The estimated total value of the food he gave me is about $40.
The first time he bought me groceries, he called me from the supermarket and asked me to look in my fridge and see what I needed to make a few meals. He said that he "wanted to buy me groceries" so I told him 4-5 items and the next day he brought them over to my house.
The 2nd time he bought me groceries, we had a conversation before on the phone in which I told him "please, you don't have to buy groceries for me, I can go to the food pantry.... I feel bad." He replied that he wanted to help me and told me to meet him outside his apartment where he transferred the groceries into my trunk. He even offered to buy me gas for my car, which I declined, saying I could take care of it myself.
We broke up about 2 or 3 days after the 2nd time he bought me groceries and now he is texting me saying that he wants the money back for the groceries he bought. He is saying that he lent me the groceries (which doesn't make sense, since they would obviously be eaten and no longer exist) and that he wants his money back. He told me he talked to his buddy who is a cop in our city who advised him that he was correct and said that he was the owner of the property so he could demand it back whenever he wanted. He sends me texts saying that hes going to call the police and say its theft. He told me this in a context of an argument and in my opinion it was a threat to try and pressure me into doing what he wanted, and when I tell him to go to the police and report it he ignores it.
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My question is do I have to pay him back the money that he spent on groceries for me? When I research on the internet, it says that the person who gave the gift is called the donor and the recipient is called the donee and that the donee is the owner of the property so long as certain conditions are met. I can't find anything about food specifically, and to me it seems like it could be different because its not a durable good that you give to someone, it's going to either spoil or be eaten and therefore cease to have an exchange value.
If anyone can point me to a website that states the law for colorado on this please post!
This guy I was dating for about a month was kind enough to buy me some groceries twice over a period of about 10 days. He stated that he was doing so to help me since I lost my job in early January. The estimated total value of the food he gave me is about $40.
The first time he bought me groceries, he called me from the supermarket and asked me to look in my fridge and see what I needed to make a few meals. He said that he "wanted to buy me groceries" so I told him 4-5 items and the next day he brought them over to my house.
The 2nd time he bought me groceries, we had a conversation before on the phone in which I told him "please, you don't have to buy groceries for me, I can go to the food pantry.... I feel bad." He replied that he wanted to help me and told me to meet him outside his apartment where he transferred the groceries into my trunk. He even offered to buy me gas for my car, which I declined, saying I could take care of it myself.
We broke up about 2 or 3 days after the 2nd time he bought me groceries and now he is texting me saying that he wants the money back for the groceries he bought. He is saying that he lent me the groceries (which doesn't make sense, since they would obviously be eaten and no longer exist) and that he wants his money back. He told me he talked to his buddy who is a cop in our city who advised him that he was correct and said that he was the owner of the property so he could demand it back whenever he wanted. He sends me texts saying that hes going to call the police and say its theft. He told me this in a context of an argument and in my opinion it was a threat to try and pressure me into doing what he wanted, and when I tell him to go to the police and report it he ignores it.
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My question is do I have to pay him back the money that he spent on groceries for me? When I research on the internet, it says that the person who gave the gift is called the donor and the recipient is called the donee and that the donee is the owner of the property so long as certain conditions are met. I can't find anything about food specifically, and to me it seems like it could be different because its not a durable good that you give to someone, it's going to either spoil or be eaten and therefore cease to have an exchange value.
If anyone can point me to a website that states the law for colorado on this please post!