- Jurisdiction
- Kentucky
My grandson will be 8 in April. We was ordered DeFacto of when before he was 1. My son last year decided he wanted 100 percent custody of him. He married a girl in Indiana. We are in Ky. One hour away. He asked for the court to remove our DeFacto. It was denied. We did agree to 50-50 custody with us and him. That wasn't enough for my son. He wants 100 percent. He has now appealed this case.
We are waiting on appeal.
I can't find it in my heart to think this is right for our grandson. This is home. We are home. He bonded with us at birth and we are young and vibrant. He has enjoyed a great life. We sacrificed our future retirement and have no regrets. He makes all A's and scores above the national average on all standardized tests. We laid our lives aside to get ensure his future. He is extremely attached to us. He don't mind to go visit dad. He don't enjoy staying as long as he has to stay now that we agreed to 50-50 but we thought if we worked with our son he would stop all this. But sadly no.
The appeal has my heart broken into pieces. This has torn our family apart. We try to make our grandson no know anything is wrong etc....
In your legal opinion do you believe the appeals court will remove our DeFacto and give him to our son. ???
His mother is in our town and is actively involved with him. She is in a better place. But she doesn't want our grandson leaving our home. Even she says it's best he stay put. After 8 years almost it's all he has never known
My son was on drugs. Spend three years in jail. Had a drug charge last year that was dismissed. And violated and EPO one and half year ago.
At his wedding in August the police came and found drugs in the grooms room. No charges were filed.
We still have lifestyle concerns regarding him. But it's tough when they don't get charged. And get cases dismissed. He is a bully and some courts back down off him in those small towns. That don't want all his mouthy trouble etc.
Thanks for your time. I am just reaching for some answers. Some peace of mind.
We are waiting on appeal.
I can't find it in my heart to think this is right for our grandson. This is home. We are home. He bonded with us at birth and we are young and vibrant. He has enjoyed a great life. We sacrificed our future retirement and have no regrets. He makes all A's and scores above the national average on all standardized tests. We laid our lives aside to get ensure his future. He is extremely attached to us. He don't mind to go visit dad. He don't enjoy staying as long as he has to stay now that we agreed to 50-50 but we thought if we worked with our son he would stop all this. But sadly no.
The appeal has my heart broken into pieces. This has torn our family apart. We try to make our grandson no know anything is wrong etc....
In your legal opinion do you believe the appeals court will remove our DeFacto and give him to our son. ???
His mother is in our town and is actively involved with him. She is in a better place. But she doesn't want our grandson leaving our home. Even she says it's best he stay put. After 8 years almost it's all he has never known
My son was on drugs. Spend three years in jail. Had a drug charge last year that was dismissed. And violated and EPO one and half year ago.
At his wedding in August the police came and found drugs in the grooms room. No charges were filed.
We still have lifestyle concerns regarding him. But it's tough when they don't get charged. And get cases dismissed. He is a bully and some courts back down off him in those small towns. That don't want all his mouthy trouble etc.
Thanks for your time. I am just reaching for some answers. Some peace of mind.