Ok, let me start this by explaining…I am married to a raving lunatic. I preface things this way, because what I am about to explain just does not make sense to reasonable people without the qualifier.
OK, about a year and a half ago, I moved my wife and my stepdaughter into a BEAUTIFUL new home. I came home from work one day, a week later…and she had moved out, and taken our daughter with her. A WEEK after I had spent the money to move us in…I am alone in a huge house suited for a family. This is the kind of thing I deal with. Two weeks later, the apologies and the tears always come…and then, after accepting it…it happens again within 6 months, like clockwork.
This time, however…I had made the mistake of believing the Riddlin had finally kicked in, and my wife and I decided to have a baby. Wouldn't you know it…5 months into the pregnancy…I come home from work…and guess who is gone again? I am married to a raving lunatic who is both unstable, and irresponsible. During one of her fits, I got stabbed in the neck and had to access immediate medical attention, lest I would have died. This woman has made my life a living hell.
Regardless, I was prepared to allow her back into our home because of my newborn daughter…the TRUE love of my life. Two weeks ago, this plan was accepted…and I was in the process of moving all of her things BACK into our home while she was in the hospital (to prevent premature birth, because she refused to stop smoking). Wouldn't you know it, she threw another fit…and told me to stop moving her things back in.
Keep in mind, now she is sitting in a house that she can not afford (that she rented back in December), is about to be evicted from there, and has taken her lunacy to her parents house. All the while, my stable, safe, secure and loving home is exactly where it has always been, and has been maintained soley by me.
Honestly, there is nothing I want more than a Divorce from this woman. But I would sooner die than live without my PERFECT new daughter. So, in the latest fit…my wife chose to be released from the hospital, and take MY CHILD to her Mother's house. Oh…and in case you doubt the instability, she told me that I could be with my daughter…If I gave up MY HOME, and moved in with HER parents. LOL, I am 34 years old, a War Veteran, and a College graduate…with a highly successful career and a nice home. Can you IMAGINE my reaction to THIS condition?
Regardless, My wife is reckless, irresponsible, and dangerous. I WANT my daughter with me, immediately! I know how to get to the house where they are staying, and I know I have every bit as much right to my daughter as she does. I can not get a full divorce until December…because that's when she moved out (it takes a year), so custody can not be settled until then. But I want IMMEDIATE possession of my daughter, to ensure her safety! What must be done for me to get my daughter OUT of there?
Anyone with any information about the "dos and don't" please help!
OK, about a year and a half ago, I moved my wife and my stepdaughter into a BEAUTIFUL new home. I came home from work one day, a week later…and she had moved out, and taken our daughter with her. A WEEK after I had spent the money to move us in…I am alone in a huge house suited for a family. This is the kind of thing I deal with. Two weeks later, the apologies and the tears always come…and then, after accepting it…it happens again within 6 months, like clockwork.
This time, however…I had made the mistake of believing the Riddlin had finally kicked in, and my wife and I decided to have a baby. Wouldn't you know it…5 months into the pregnancy…I come home from work…and guess who is gone again? I am married to a raving lunatic who is both unstable, and irresponsible. During one of her fits, I got stabbed in the neck and had to access immediate medical attention, lest I would have died. This woman has made my life a living hell.
Regardless, I was prepared to allow her back into our home because of my newborn daughter…the TRUE love of my life. Two weeks ago, this plan was accepted…and I was in the process of moving all of her things BACK into our home while she was in the hospital (to prevent premature birth, because she refused to stop smoking). Wouldn't you know it, she threw another fit…and told me to stop moving her things back in.
Keep in mind, now she is sitting in a house that she can not afford (that she rented back in December), is about to be evicted from there, and has taken her lunacy to her parents house. All the while, my stable, safe, secure and loving home is exactly where it has always been, and has been maintained soley by me.
Honestly, there is nothing I want more than a Divorce from this woman. But I would sooner die than live without my PERFECT new daughter. So, in the latest fit…my wife chose to be released from the hospital, and take MY CHILD to her Mother's house. Oh…and in case you doubt the instability, she told me that I could be with my daughter…If I gave up MY HOME, and moved in with HER parents. LOL, I am 34 years old, a War Veteran, and a College graduate…with a highly successful career and a nice home. Can you IMAGINE my reaction to THIS condition?
Regardless, My wife is reckless, irresponsible, and dangerous. I WANT my daughter with me, immediately! I know how to get to the house where they are staying, and I know I have every bit as much right to my daughter as she does. I can not get a full divorce until December…because that's when she moved out (it takes a year), so custody can not be settled until then. But I want IMMEDIATE possession of my daughter, to ensure her safety! What must be done for me to get my daughter OUT of there?
Anyone with any information about the "dos and don't" please help!
