I have a 3 yr old son. His mother and I have lived together for 4 yrs and I am listed on the birth certificate as the father. We have done parternity test, I am the father. However, is their more I need to do to insure mine as well as his rights to each other? His Mom and I have a roll a coaster relationship and often when we are upset she treatens to go and not let me see our son. Can this happen? If I were to pass away would he be entitled to my assets? I do have a will that names him but is that enough? His mom claims that if she were to pass he would go to the state and not me because we are not married. That sounds ridiculous and probably just pressure for me to marry but I want to be sure.