Father Denying Time To Mother

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mas92875

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Here's the facts:

*Father and child live in a different state than the mother.

*Father has primary custody of the child.

*Child is currently six months away from 18th birthday.

*Mother pays a substantial amount of child support and medical support to father each month via wage assignment.

*In Spring 2008, father denied custody to mother, citing that he cannot get the child on the plane to visit mother.

*Mother took father to court over this and the court suggested that the father "try harder" or impose "stronger punishment" on child to persude child to visit mother.

*In Summer 2008, father once again denied custody to mother, citing that he cannot get the child on the plane to visit mother.

*Fear is that this might happen again across 2008 winter vacation.

It's clear that the father is breaching the contract set forth by the state. Unfortunately, the child will be turning 18 in early 2009, so getting more court ordred time is useless.

However, would the mother be successful in suing father in small claims court, citing breach of contract and collecting compensatory damages?

Let's say the mother paid $600 a month across 12 months in 2008. The current court order stipulates she should see the child 90 days a year. The father has only granted 40 days of access to the child in 2008.

If you divide $7200 by 90 days, that equals $80 for each day. Now if you multiply $80 by the denied 50 days, that equals $4,000.

If this is not the correct course of action, what might be a more sound way to persue this?
 
You aren't paying rent on your child. You can look at child support as reimbursement to the custodial parent for the expenses incurred in raising the child, or as your share of the support needed to provide for the child.

Actually, if you want to break it down, you are paying for support of your son for the 275 days he is with his dad. If you had 50/50 physical custody, then generally you wouldn't pay as much. So, $7200 divided by 275 days is about $26 per day. Since your son has only been with you for 40 days, then by your argument, you would owe dad 26x50, or $1300.

I believe your only recourse is to head back to court again for contempt of the visitation order. Possibly, you could also ask for reimbursement of your airfare so you can go get your son in order to exercise your visitation.
 
You make a very good point.

What about going to small claims court to recover legal fees? After all, the mother spent many thousands of dollars to get an order that in essence, says "you will see your child on this day and that day". By the father's doing, the order has been breached. What was the point of going to court if the father had no intention of following the contract?
 
You could try, but I think it might be referred back to family court. If you decide to go for contempt again, ask that your ex pay any new legal fees.

What does your son say about all this?
 
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