Emergency Advice PLEASE

[seas4vvy]

I have sole physical custody and joint legal of my daughter in the state of Massachusetts. I am in financial ruin because my estranged husband (not the father) left me with a mountain of financial burdens. I have tried unsuccessfully for a month to figure out a way to stay in Mass however, I am on the verge of losing my apartment. I mentioned to her father that my family in Maine is a huge support system to me and has offered to help get me back on my feet. This change is just over 2hrs driving distance. I was just served today with a motion for Short order change in custody. Can he take my daughter from me or prevent from leaving even if I have no other options? I was not aware of any relocation notice so I did not file one.

HELP! Can I loose my daughter here?

 

[Duranie]

You canmot move the child out of state without dad's or the courts permission. If you are intotal financial ruin you might have to leave the child with Dad. I would see if you can work something out with him so he will allow you to move. If you agree to do all the driving will he allow the move? I know thats alot of driving but expecitng dad to drive 2 hours one way is not really that reasonable either.

 

[seas4vvy]

I am willing to do all the driving. Up and back if necessary and my family will help.

 

[Duranie]

Well yet it will help but Dad still does not have to agree. Have you asked him? Gas is expensive to be prepared to follow through your committment to do all the driving.