I am writing to find out what i need to do. We have a family friend who is 14. She lost her mother a couple years ago and is now living with her step dad and half brother and step brother. She has no idea who real dad is or even if he is alive the last she heard he wasnt. Her step dad does not have legal custody of her only a marriage licence showing that her mom and him were married. She does not like her situation./ Her step dad is recieving death benefits through Social Securtiy on all three children. She does not see a dime of that money. What can we do legally to have her live with us? We live in Arkansas.