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Discussion in 'Other Family Law Matters' started by JEGardner4, May 28, 2017.

  1. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    the problem i had was that every service including safelink (obama phone) at least if Fl has text and what got me mad was the way he said it. also my dcf case worker is 22 yrs old trying to tell him to call me not text me didn't get through to him who knows what would happen if he got a bounced back text LOL. plus I was trying to find out how to deal with the test he said he sent me on previously to now that i didn't get the texts for but a good customer of mine ( i am his preferred mechanic) came back in to town now he is a retired county judge for where i live in the family court division so he's handling it.
     
  2. army judge

    army judge Super Moderator

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    You can also give the number of a relative you trust.

    If you want to get back in your child's life, you gotta satisfy the bullies, mate.

    Think of the state as a kidnapper.

    This kidnapper wants you to do stuff, and you get your kid back.

    I bet you're a great father.

    So, do whatever the kidnapper demands to get your kid back.
     
  3. leslie82

    leslie82 Well-Known Member

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    Then call him and don't text. I have no idea what the rest of your comment says.

    Texting is unreliable and people don't always get texts. But if you have a phone call or you go in person that's a bit more reliable. You're not getting texts so you need a different method of communication. If you tell them to call you they can leave a voicemail and then you get the message.

    Oh boo hoo you didn't like how something was worded. It's the Internet.
     
  4. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    grow up, u want to defend him then bitch at me well hypocrite have a lovely life
     
  5. leslie82

    leslie82 Well-Known Member

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    How am I hypocrite? You need to grow up (and learn some basic English as well).
     
  6. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    one thing I'm british so i do speak English and look up the definition of hypocrite and the 82 in your name means usually that you were born in 82 so i am older than you by a bit so i will ignore a youngster so have a nice day ;)
     
  7. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    and psychologically speaking do you have a boyfriend cause if you do i would hate to be him if this is how you treat strangers by trying to put them down. So what don't you like about your self
     
  8. leslie82

    leslie82 Well-Known Member

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    You don't even seem to speak British English...anyway. So what if I was born in 82 - your point? Being older does not make one wiser. You are the case in point because you have no clue what you're talking about. You do realize there are lawyers out there who are younger than you right? Would you ignore them?

    Nothing you said was "psychologically" speaking lol. No I don't have a boyfriend. I have a shitty ex husband. How have I treated you? I am blunt with everyone I talk to including family and friends and they don't mind it. If I was dating a guy and he didn't like how blunt I am then he's not worth my time. I see now that you're trying to make personal attacks. Generally when one does that, they've lost the argument or debate. So I'm not going to get further into anything personal with you. Your question was answered. You didn't like the answers. That's your own fault. If you want to see your kid again, you have to follow what child services says. If you aren't getting text messages then COMMON SENSE would say get another form of communication instead of bitching on a forum. If the state told me I had to take 100 drug tests a month to see my child, I'd do it.

    Good day.
     
  9. mightymoose

    mightymoose Moderator

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    Can't we all just get along? No reason it can't be kept civil.
    So much grouchiness in these forums lately.

    As for the one comment above- it needs a qualifier. One is never at the mercy of child services. If child services requires something to be done it either needs to be backed up in statute or by court order.
    I never did see in these comments that the drug tests were ordered by the court but perhaps I missed it. That is usually where such a requirement will be generated. Otherwise it is only a request and can not have any penalty for non-compliance.
    The communication by text message is completely out of the ordinary.
    Something is out of whack here and it seems the father has options to pursue but it just isn't clear where the problem is really at.
     
  10. mightymoose

    mightymoose Moderator

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    Were you ordered by the court to take these tests?
    If not, they are not required of you, and your failure to submit to the tests can not be used against you.
     
  11. leslie82

    leslie82 Well-Known Member

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    I had no problem until he starts throwing personal insults at me for no reason. I think I held myself back reasonably well considering what he said to me.
     
  12. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    well good you don't want to talk NOW LISTEN I AM TRYING TO FIND OUT WHAT TO DO WITH PAST TEST THEY SAID THEY SENT ME ON NOT THE FURTHER ONES SO READ BEFORE YOU ANSWER AND PISS OFF YOU BLOODY WANKER
     
  13. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    AND DON'T START THROWING INSULTS AT SOME ONE UNLESS YOU WANT THEM BACK AND SEE I WAS RITE YOU DON'T HAVE A MAN CAUSE YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO BE RITE CAUSE I HAD NO PROBLEM WITH YOU TILL YOUR COMENT ON JUNE 1ST SO WHO STARTED WHAT
     
  14. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    YA BUT THE PROBLEM IS THEY FAILED TO NOTIFY ME sorry not meaning to yell
     
  15. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    as for your ? on what started this my ex accused me of abusing my prescription meds i have a collapsed disc in my back, blown knee torn rite rotator cuff and ptsd from the military. my ex laust custody do to her drug problem and that why i left her. no she thinks that's the best way to get back at me and she got my daughter to lie to dcf by telling her that it would get me and her mother back together
     
  16. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    yes i am ordered to take tests but the fail to tell me to take one and then count it against me
     
  17. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    well good news my ex is going back jail so i am getting full custody of my daughter back and a restraining order on my ex
     
  18. army judge

    army judge Super Moderator

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    That is good news, so just keep walking the straight and narrow and everyone will leave you alone to enjoy your life.
     
  19. leslie82

    leslie82 Well-Known Member

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    Lighten up Francis. I don't know why you're yelling at me. You already got answers and you don't like them. So that's not my problem or my fault. You seem to have an anger control issue which you should work on. Perhaps you need to take some drugs to chill out. I feel really bad for your kid if you can get so easily pissed off by a stranger on the Internet. Time to go to ignore.
     
  20. JEGardner4

    JEGardner4 Law Topic Starter New Member

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    aw did i make you mad because i have been laughing at you loosing your temper and what i did for the military you have to be in full control of your emotions i have been having fun pissing you off LMFAO and my name isn't francis but that's still a common name but leslie is a 1940's name
     

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