mommyofjii
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can he do this really
First off thank you, whoever gives me advice. I am from Georgia, and I have a 7 year old daughter. She is illegitamate, her father has been in and out as he pleases which has never been much. He had a child support case for $35 a week and never complied with that. He was locked up one time for non payment had to pay $600 to get out. A second time had a warrant and payed $900 to get that off and $3000 to the state from where i had to recieve assistance. He has given her one Christmas present and one Birthday gift her whole life.
I recently turned off child support because we agreed that he would let my husband adopt her. Now out of the blue he has decided to legitimize her and try to get visitation. This has come about since he has a new girlfriend that he wants to marry and she thinks he should do this. This is the first we have heard from him in a year and a half, as he will come around for a few weeks and disappear for more than a year at a time.
Now heres the kicker. He has 4 other children who are currently in foster care with his mother, and have been for 4 years. He claims that he has recently had them legitimized, but I thought that if he had signed the birth certificate and they all have his last name they were all ready legit. His fiance has 4 kids also.
My question is, would the judge grant him visitation, or would he be considered unfit. I believe he is just doing this to impress the fiance.
thank you again for any advice.
First off thank you, whoever gives me advice. I am from Georgia, and I have a 7 year old daughter. She is illegitamate, her father has been in and out as he pleases which has never been much. He had a child support case for $35 a week and never complied with that. He was locked up one time for non payment had to pay $600 to get out. A second time had a warrant and payed $900 to get that off and $3000 to the state from where i had to recieve assistance. He has given her one Christmas present and one Birthday gift her whole life.
I recently turned off child support because we agreed that he would let my husband adopt her. Now out of the blue he has decided to legitimize her and try to get visitation. This has come about since he has a new girlfriend that he wants to marry and she thinks he should do this. This is the first we have heard from him in a year and a half, as he will come around for a few weeks and disappear for more than a year at a time.
Now heres the kicker. He has 4 other children who are currently in foster care with his mother, and have been for 4 years. He claims that he has recently had them legitimized, but I thought that if he had signed the birth certificate and they all have his last name they were all ready legit. His fiance has 4 kids also.
My question is, would the judge grant him visitation, or would he be considered unfit. I believe he is just doing this to impress the fiance.
thank you again for any advice.
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