Shoplifted and took shoplifting prevention devices off items. Was released by magistrate on my own unsecured $1,000 bond. Am a mom of college & high schoolers, & a pillar of my community. I am ashamed and humiliated and scared. I'm deeply sorry for what I did and will never do it again. Do I need a lawyer for my court appearance tomorrow?
You've gotten great advice. The remorse and shame you're feeling shows you're a decent human being. We've all done things that were still ashamed of ever doing. For some of us, it wasn't criminal, perhaps uncivilized, or uncaring.
Okay, you can appear tomorrow, plead not guilty, don't apologize or show you're EMBARASSED. They will be time enough for that later, tomorrow will get the ball rolling.
Ask the court for a continuance so that you can have time to hire a lawyer, unless you can get one by tomorrow.
If you can't, no worries, the court will allow you a couple of weeks to arrange for a lawyer to represent you.
In the interim, you can also seek counseling from your minister, Rabbi, pastor, imam, or religious leader.
In addition, or in lieu, speak with a therapist, psychologist, or psychiatrist about your recent action.
It'll help you get over this tough time, and show you how to heal your conscience and rebuild your reputation.
Telling a lie doesn't mean you're a liar.
Telling one truth (and 1,000,000 lies) doesn't make you a TRUTHER.
Stealing once doesn't mean you're a thief.
See a mental health professional, as you work your way through this matter.