do i has a say in who i want to live with?

[nikkiewikkie]

im 14 and i live with my mom and step dad in alabama but my step dad is military so they r moving to virina i think this summer . up and till now my mom has let me visit my dad as i please when ever and she has always told me that i can go live with him if i want so i decided that sence were moveing i do but now she is telling me no just because she doesnt want to lose me. do i have a say? btw she has full custody

please reply asap

 

[Proserpina]

If your Dad files for custody, at 14 your wishes may be taken into consideration...but HE has to file something in court.

In other words - you can't decide. Not until you're 18.

Have him sign up here, and we'll try to help him

 

[army judge]

im 14 and i live with my mom and step dad in alabama but my step dad is military so they r moving to virina i think this summer . up and till now my mom has let me visit my dad as i please when ever and she has always told me that i can go live with him if i want so i decided that sence were moveing i do but now she is telling me no just because she doesnt want to lose me. do i have a say? btw she has full custody

please reply asap

Dad has certain rights.

One of those rights is that he can visit you, as described in the custody order (assuming such an order exists).

You have no say in the matter, or at best, little say.

However, be of good cheer.

Dad potentially has great say in the matter of where you can live.

As Proserpina suggested, ask Dad to clarify your question.

He can even use your account to do so.

Hang on, you may not be going anywhwere soon.

But, whatever you do, don't shoot your mouth off to mom about this.

That is Dad's job.

You're a kid, so do what Mom says, and let Dad do his.

 

[mileytipton]

Hi,
I don't want to disappoint you, but it is not at all in your hand until you are 18. If you want than talk to your father in this regards and tell him to file a case for your custody. As you told you are 14 there may be chances to take your view in consideration, But in some cases it can considered taught by father and mother can even cease your visits to your father's place. So be a little patient and ask your father what you want and ask him to join here. For getting into better situation.