question,
my ex filled for divorce in New Mexico while i was in Texas serving in the military, this was back in 1999 when the divorced was final and i retired from the military in 2006. i pay child support till my 2 kids turn 19 or graduate HS witch ever comes first. my oldest is about to graduate HS next month, and i ill admit i missed a few child support payment due to the economy and loosing jobs but i did make some payments to her. i have no problem making up my missed payment, the problem is she has told me if she want's a notorized letter saying i will make up the payment also she wants in the letter that i will give her half my check every 2 weeks. also she wants me to put in there that i will help with my oldest child college. if i dont do that she will fille to the court that i have missed payment and she will also file for my retirement pension if i dont do this. to me thats blackmail "i wont apply if i get what i want" is there a time limit that she has to file for my pension or can she keep using that against me to get what she wants. also we never made recalcualated the child suport after i got out of the military so i probably have been giving her more than i would of had too since i was making way less then when i was in the military.
my ex filled for divorce in New Mexico while i was in Texas serving in the military, this was back in 1999 when the divorced was final and i retired from the military in 2006. i pay child support till my 2 kids turn 19 or graduate HS witch ever comes first. my oldest is about to graduate HS next month, and i ill admit i missed a few child support payment due to the economy and loosing jobs but i did make some payments to her. i have no problem making up my missed payment, the problem is she has told me if she want's a notorized letter saying i will make up the payment also she wants in the letter that i will give her half my check every 2 weeks. also she wants me to put in there that i will help with my oldest child college. if i dont do that she will fille to the court that i have missed payment and she will also file for my retirement pension if i dont do this. to me thats blackmail "i wont apply if i get what i want" is there a time limit that she has to file for my pension or can she keep using that against me to get what she wants. also we never made recalcualated the child suport after i got out of the military so i probably have been giving her more than i would of had too since i was making way less then when i was in the military.