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Divorce and Separation

Discussion in 'Divorce, Separation, Annulment' started by rosyshina, Jun 5, 2014.

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  1. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    I got married in june 2010, and since then I am not having good terms with my husband. I gave birth to my daughter in feb11. My husband is a psychic case and fights with me in regular basis, he drinks a lot and daily. I am earning and staying at my company's accommodation i.e. I am not dependent on him on any matters, neither is he willing to share some money or work in home. He just want to fight all the time and plays all kinds of tactics against me along with his mother.I want advice form you what should i do and i am also scared that he will take my daughter away from me and fight with me after the divorce may be try to hurt me also. Please help me .
     
  2. Proserpina

    Proserpina Moderator

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    He has equal rights to your child as of right now.

    Custody will be decided based upon the best interests of the child. A big question here though is who does what - in other words, are you both working?

    If you work and Dad stays home, there's a better-than-decent chance he'll be the custodial parent with you having regular visitation.

    If it's vice versa, just switch the terms.

    One thing is for sure - you're going to have to deal with him having regular access to his child, and if he wants overnights and weekends they'll start more or less immediately (this assumes you'll be the CP).
     
  3. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    i don't want my husband have any right on my child because he is not at all good father.

    yes we both are working and currently i am staying at my company accommodation.

    Thing is that i don't want to give him any accuses to my child , he is not at all good father and my child is not safe with him.

    I pass my case to Blount County Alabama Divorce Attorney they are looking at my case.
    I want best for my child and me also and i want to be the custodial parent for my child .
     
  4. Proserpina

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    Why did you give the case to an Alabama attorney when you tell us that jurisdiction is in Arizona?

    Here's the thing. You're married. You have basically told the court that he's fine parenting material, and unless there's something serious going on that you haven't told us about, he will get unsupervised visitation - and perhaps an equal time-share. You can't just change your mind overnight.

    One other thing. I get that you're trying to help others and that's fine - but you posted incorrect information in that one bankruptcy thread. Please don't do that :)
     
  5. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    I talk to my attorney about the case and i will get the justice and about bankruptcy thread i will make sure this will not happen again .
     
  6. Proserpina

    Proserpina Moderator

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    Okey dokey then.

    You're welcome!
     
  7. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    Well What about my problem ? Can you please tell me more so i can do more research on this
     
  8. Proserpina

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    Your custody issue is a problem. Unless you can prove - and by prove, I mean police reports, convictions, etc - that he's unfit, Dad is going to get unsupervised visitation probably from the get-go.

    You can make all sorts of claims, but the bottom line is that he's going to get some custody and it won't be supervised.

    Again though, you said you lived in Arizona - why is an Alabama attorney looking at things?
     
  9. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    This forum is by default take Arizona state i don't mention any state in this forum. I live in Alabama and my case is handle by my Blount County Alabama Child Custody Attorney. my friend told me about this forum site she is also facing some family issue so i join this forum and i am very much pleased by your answers. Thank you so much
     
  10. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    One more thing i like to add in this topic can you suggest me how to handle Personal Injury case.
     
  11. Betty3

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    We don't have much information/details here. You might want to talk to a personal injury attorney.
     
  12. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    Betty Thank you for your reply. Of course i will concern with Personal injury attorney but i thought may be you guys help me the way you do in past few days. Please help me with this also if you have any knowledge regarding Personal Injury do share with me .
     
  13. Proserpina

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    Rosyshina, we cannot operate in a vacuum - you've given absolutely no details regarding either your custody matter OR why you need a personal injury attorney.

    I'm sorry, but we can't take you step by step through the process.

    You may wish to look here: http://www.legalservicesalabama.org/ or here: http://www.alabamalegalhelp.org/


    Good luck :)
     
  14. KatDini

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    I know the judge in BlountCo. You'll not get everything you want. Husband will get visitation at the very least.

    If husband attempts to hurt you, you call the sheriff/911.

    Link to Alabama Code on Child Custody
    http://alisondb.legislature.state.al.us/acas/CodeOfAlabama/1975/128972.htm

    Link to Alabama Administrative Court site on Child Support:
    http://www.alacourt.gov/ChildSupportInfo.aspx

    DHR website on Child Support:
    http://www.dhr.state.al.us/page.asp?pageid=288

    You say you have an attorney. Why not approach him/her with your questions and concerns? That's why you're paying for his/her services.

    You can call the County and State Bar Association and see if they know of anyone who is willing to help you:
    http://www.birminghambar.org/
    http://www.alabar.org/

    Law schools usually offer clinics for free help, to train the law students.
    Here's a link to UA's School of Law Clinics:
    http://www.law.ua.edu/clinics/

    Samford University also has Cumberland School of Law:
    http://cumberland.samford.edu/

    Then, there's the Birmingham School of Law:
    http://www.bsol.com/

    Here's a number for the Miles Law School; No information on their website if they offer clinics or such, but the worst they can do is tell you no.
    205-923-7739
     
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  15. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    Proserpina i got your point and about personal injury attorney i add that topic just because my friend like to know about it but now that matter is under control , About my case we have a strong case against my husband and i am sure we will get the custody of my daughter. Thank you for your kind support.
     
  16. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    boyzgrrl how can you say that he will get the visitation ? we have very strong case against him he is not going near to my daughter that man is a psychic case he hurt me many time but for sake of my family i never called police but now i don't want to live with this man so i will do what ever the possible way to get my daughter away from him to secure her future. Thank you for your help and i will go through the links you have posted.
     
  17. KatDini

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    Like I said, good luck with that. I KNOW this judge. I KNOW what she'll order. I've seen her orders in similar cases.
     
  18. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    Lightning Never Strikes The Same Place Twice i will take my chances. DO you know her personally? Only think is left in me is hope , hope to see a good future for my daughter and i have faith in my god he never let me down.
     
  19. KatDini

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    Yes I do. I'm not her, but I know her.
     
  20. rosyshina

    rosyshina Law Topic Starter New Member

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    Should i be worry about her ? I have a strong case let see what happen .
     

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