RageOfAngels
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After much contemplating, I've decided to end a ten year marriage, which involves two school aged boys(9 and 6), a ton of debt, and physical obstacles of my own. The relationship is emotionally detrimental to not only myself but the kids and I've come to the conclusion the only way to fix things is to dissove what's left.
While there are the obvious issues to deal with; the financial dent a divorce will make, custody of the children, etc, a few other concerns have surfaced.
What if the other party contests it? I want the divorce, I've bought it up in the past and his response was" you'd be nothing without me" I'm legally blind and continuing to lose my sight and living off disablity. I have no access to any of his accounts,checking or credit cards. It's always been 'his money', never joint.
Can someone be forced in staying in a marriage?
I found out that I signed a quit claim unknowingly, did i really sign away all my rights to the property?
Can he going after half of 634.00 I recieve a month from SSDI and what I make from my part time job in which I make about 300.00 month?
Can he use my sight loss against me regarding custody of the kids? I will not use them as pawns in this, in fact he may see them whenever he wishes to. I'm not trying to be malicious, I just can't be married to this man anymore.
Will I be responsible for half the debt he's ecrued over the years, considering he had once used a cash advance on a credit card to gamble?
Here's to finding some clarity, thank you
R-O-A
While there are the obvious issues to deal with; the financial dent a divorce will make, custody of the children, etc, a few other concerns have surfaced.
What if the other party contests it? I want the divorce, I've bought it up in the past and his response was" you'd be nothing without me" I'm legally blind and continuing to lose my sight and living off disablity. I have no access to any of his accounts,checking or credit cards. It's always been 'his money', never joint.
Can someone be forced in staying in a marriage?
I found out that I signed a quit claim unknowingly, did i really sign away all my rights to the property?
Can he going after half of 634.00 I recieve a month from SSDI and what I make from my part time job in which I make about 300.00 month?
Can he use my sight loss against me regarding custody of the kids? I will not use them as pawns in this, in fact he may see them whenever he wishes to. I'm not trying to be malicious, I just can't be married to this man anymore.
Will I be responsible for half the debt he's ecrued over the years, considering he had once used a cash advance on a credit card to gamble?
Here's to finding some clarity, thank you
R-O-A