derecho de abuela

[anapaola]

Saludos, tengo un problema con la abuela de mis hijos por parte de padre. La abuela nunca ha sido tan atenta con sus nietos hasta ahora por problemas de familia. Nunca se le prohibió ver sus nietos, luego estuvo con ellos un fin de semana, y a la semana siguiente envía mensajes exigiendo hasta el día en que los quiere ver o que si no va por corte. Esto sin haber tenido un diálogo cordial con los padres, ambos. Le he hecho caso omiso a sus mensajes los cuales he considerado una falta de repeto y daño emocional tanto para mis hijos, la relación de pareja y más. He esperado la orden por corte, porque estoy consciente que tiene derecho, pero no a imponer su voluntad. Al parecer no ha ido, pero através de otros familiares trata de hacernos llegar mensajes, haciéndose la mártir, porque todo es teatro, ya que mis hijos han estado incluso hospitalizados por condición grave y nisiquiera los visitó al hospital. Pero, ahora nos mudamos fuera del país por razón de estudio. Cómo sería si le ponen visitas ella tendría que viajar? y si no lo hace?Además, que hago yo con esta situación que nos está afectando emocionalmente y no quiero que afecte a mis hijos, además no la considero buen ejemplo para mis nenes. Por favor, les agraceré toda la ayuda que me brinden.

GRACIAS!!!!

 

[army judge]

Saludos, tengo un problema con la abuela de mis hijos por parte de padre. La abuela nunca ha sido tan atenta con sus nietos hasta ahora por problemas de familia. Nunca se le prohibió ver sus nietos, luego estuvo con ellos un fin de semana, y a la semana siguiente envía mensajes exigiendo hasta el día en que los quiere ver o que si no va por corte. Esto sin haber tenido un diálogo cordial con los padres, ambos. Le he hecho caso omiso a sus mensajes los cuales he considerado una falta de repeto y daño emocional tanto para mis hijos, la relación de pareja y más. He esperado la orden por corte, porque estoy consciente que tiene derecho, pero no a imponer su voluntad. Al parecer no ha ido, pero através de otros familiares trata de hacernos llegar mensajes, haciéndose la mártir, porque todo es teatro, ya que mis hijos han estado incluso hospitalizados por condición grave y nisiquiera los visitó al hospital. Pero, ahora nos mudamos fuera del país por razón de estudio. Cómo sería si le ponen visitas ella tendría que viajar? y si no lo hace?Además, que hago yo con esta situación que nos está afectando emocionalmente y no quiero que afecte a mis hijos, además no la considero buen ejemplo para mis nenes. Por favor, les agraceré toda la ayuda que me brinden.

GRACIAS!!!!

Here is the translation of your problem for those who don't read Spanish.
It is the best I am able to do with my poor Spanish skills.

Greetings, I have a problem with my children's paternal grandmother. The grandmother has never been so attentive to her grandchildren so far by family problems. He was never barred from seeing their grandchildren, then worked with them one weekend and next week demanding sends messages to the day when you want to see or if it is not by agreeable. This without having had a friendly dialogue with parents. I've ignored your messages which I considered a lack of emotional harm to repeat and both my children, relationship and more. I waited by court order because I am aware that it is entitled, but not to impose their will. Apparently not gone, but other family questions of sending messages, pretending to be a martyr, because everything is theater, as my children have been hospitalized even serious condition and not even visited the hospital. But now we moved abroad for studying. How would it be if they put her views would have to travel? and if he does? Besides, I do with this situation that is affecting us emotionally and not want to affect my children also do not consider good example for my kids. Thank you.

After reading my translation, I'm sure I lost your question.

Can you please post your question in English in a couple of sentences?

 

[anapaola]

straight of grandmother

Greetings, I have a problem with my children's paternal grandmother. The grandmother has never been so attentive to her grandchildren so far by family problems. He was never barred from seeing their grandchildren, then worked with them one weekend and next week demanding sends messages to the day when you want to see or if it is not by agreeable. This without having had a friendly dialogue with parents. I've ignored your messages which I considered a lack of emotional harm to repeat and both my children, relationship and more. I waited by court order because I am aware that it is entitled, but not to impose their will. Apparently not gone, but other family questions of sending messages, pretending to be a martyr, because everything is theater, as my children have been hospitalized even serious condition and not even visited the hospital. But now we moved abroad for studying. How would it be if they put her views would have to travel? and if he does? Besides, I do with this situation that is affecting us emotionally and not want to affect my children also do not consider good example for my kids. Thank you!!

 

[army judge]

Puerto Rico has a series of laws governing various aspects of the grandparent-grandchild relationship. For example, Article 144 of the Civil Code provides, among other things, that in the absence of parents who provide or are able to provide support for their children, the grandparents must do so. In addition, the following Puerto Rico Supreme Court decisions have established case law relevant to this issue: Elena Margarita Vega v. Manuel Vega Oliver, 85 DPR 675 y Piñero Crespo v. Gordillo Gil, 122 DPR 246.

There are also special laws (see Leyes de Puerto Rico Anotadas-LPRA [Annotated Laws of Puerto Rico]) regarding the rights of grandparents to have contact with their grandchildren in the event the parents divorce, and to voice their opinion in tribunal adoption proceedings involving their grandchildren.

But, generally, the rights of the parents (or the custodial parent) supersede any rights that a grandparent might assert. The easy answer here is, that if anyone causes dissension in your family, IGNORE THEM. It is easy to NOT listen to people that squabble, quarrel, and argue. Just ignore them and have no contact with them. Delete their emails and do not answer their phone calls.