My sister recently died intestate with sole custody of a child from a previous marriage. My sister and my niece lived with my mother for the past two years. The divorce was very bad leading to criminal problems for the former husband who ended up on probation. After my sister's death, the father got an Order To Show Cause giving him immediate custody. Without warning he took the child from my mom. Now my mother is trying to become administrator of the estate to protect the child, but the surrogate says the former spouse has first right to administer the property. Can we stop him from taking the property for himself?