I need advice. I intend to seek an attorney if necessary but right now I am just seeking sound advice.
My daughter's father is nearly $4,000 in the arrears. He goes months without even calling my child. The last time he called our daughter was in March 2007. Before that even longer. I am so tired of his lack of financial and emotional support for our child I just rather be rid of him and she can contact him or try to find him when she is 18.
He almost went to jail for being in the arrears but his month bailed him out and paid some of the back support for him (this was in Jan 2007). From April 2006 to Jan 2007 I got NOTHING from him.
He is on her birth certificate and I wish I had never allowed him to get on the darn thing. (he signed affidavit of parentage and we went to the vital records place and had him out on her certificate when she was 2 or 3 years old (she is now 8 almost 9 years old).
I am engaged to be married and my new hubby wants to adopt my daughter. She has my last name. The thing is as deadbeat as her bio dad is I KNOW he will always stand in the way and never sign over his rights without the proper "pressure" so to speak.
How much in the arrears can he go before they try to lock him up again. I call the child support enforcement office every few weeks, they send letters and take his taxes but that only happens once a year. (I received $600 in June from his taxes so I think they will count that as a payment from him but when you look at the track record he has not paid a dime from his own pocket since April of 2006. How long can he go w/o calling and how high can his arrears climb before his rights can be terminated? Does it count if I or I let her call him as HE maintaining contact?
What is the best and fastest way to get his rights revoked? Seems to me he can't possibly be seen as a father being deprived when he does nothing to communicate with our daughter.
Also he lives in Texas and I live in Maryland. I have seen posts about people not being able to move. I am the primary custodian and he has 'reasonable visitation' per the court papers in 2000. We never went before a judge but settled custody and child support in 'mediation' at the courts. Would I seriously need his permission to move or get a passport for my daughter when we go on our family cruise next year? He talks to her 3 or 4 times a year if that- it would kill me to know I needed his permission for that!
My daughter's father is nearly $4,000 in the arrears. He goes months without even calling my child. The last time he called our daughter was in March 2007. Before that even longer. I am so tired of his lack of financial and emotional support for our child I just rather be rid of him and she can contact him or try to find him when she is 18.
He almost went to jail for being in the arrears but his month bailed him out and paid some of the back support for him (this was in Jan 2007). From April 2006 to Jan 2007 I got NOTHING from him.
He is on her birth certificate and I wish I had never allowed him to get on the darn thing. (he signed affidavit of parentage and we went to the vital records place and had him out on her certificate when she was 2 or 3 years old (she is now 8 almost 9 years old).
I am engaged to be married and my new hubby wants to adopt my daughter. She has my last name. The thing is as deadbeat as her bio dad is I KNOW he will always stand in the way and never sign over his rights without the proper "pressure" so to speak.
How much in the arrears can he go before they try to lock him up again. I call the child support enforcement office every few weeks, they send letters and take his taxes but that only happens once a year. (I received $600 in June from his taxes so I think they will count that as a payment from him but when you look at the track record he has not paid a dime from his own pocket since April of 2006. How long can he go w/o calling and how high can his arrears climb before his rights can be terminated? Does it count if I or I let her call him as HE maintaining contact?
What is the best and fastest way to get his rights revoked? Seems to me he can't possibly be seen as a father being deprived when he does nothing to communicate with our daughter.
Also he lives in Texas and I live in Maryland. I have seen posts about people not being able to move. I am the primary custodian and he has 'reasonable visitation' per the court papers in 2000. We never went before a judge but settled custody and child support in 'mediation' at the courts. Would I seriously need his permission to move or get a passport for my daughter when we go on our family cruise next year? He talks to her 3 or 4 times a year if that- it would kill me to know I needed his permission for that!
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