I could totally understand if a child was being harmed in any way, however that is not the case whatsoever! If anything, all people tell me is how I spoil her!! She's 3, the light of our lives! And no she didn't tell me that she was questioned, the director/owner just casually told me. She said she didn't know anything about it, but did try and make a few calls to find out, but no one knew. The owner said that her and another little boy had been questioned today, the little boy is often in trouble and they are friends, they talk about one another non stop.
When I asked my 3 yr old what the lady asked her, she said something about "time out" and "being good", and that's it. And of course we asked her a few more times but she didnt really say much, she's 3, what can we expect her to fully understand or remember.
With all do respect, if she was a tiny bit older then I could tell her that she shouldn't talk to strangers, but we have taught her to be respectful to others.
I will be making a trip to DCF Monday to find out what it's all about. This is important to me too because I need to protect my child too.
Thank you all for your advise.
I never suspected you to be anything but a concerned mother.
We, my wife and I, always taught our children to never speak to anyone, unless one of us were present.
They were taught to ask for mommy or daddy to come.
What was allegedly done in the matter of your child was an attempt to ignore your rights as a parent.
I'd be livid, but I would speak with the school first and inquire what their policy is in such matters?
The school should have contacted you when anyone wishes to be alone with your child.
Would the school gave allowed those creeps to take your precious child with them, and never told you a thing?
After visiting with the school authorities, I'd speak with an attorney.
I'd ask the attorney just how far your state allows those cro magnon thugs to go in badgering, sneaking around, and interrogating a toddler, or any young child.
I'd want to know who, if anyone , has a duty to notify the parent(s) when those snoops come around.
Just so you know, as you were not a suspect, why didn't they contact you about chatting with your child?
I hope the other child is okay, gets help, but why fill your innocent baby's head with thoughts best left in some gutter?