my wife has accumulated large amounts of debts behind my back.she was trying to hid it from me but of course i found out about it. most of the time i am only home on the weekends because my job takes me all over the usa building water towers.when we got married she had (nothing) just a car and clothes. i have supported her and her two children for the last 4 yrs. when we were married i had already had my home,horses.4-wheelers,jeeps,very large horse trailer that you can sleep in,and 2 motorcycles.the one motorcyle i bought for her the horse trailer i bought when we were married.everything else i had (before) we married. is she going to be able to clean me out. i live in north carolina . what on earth should i do,i know she will want everything help