ADSHEPPARD
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My husband and I have joint custody of his two girls, ages 7 and 13. Our house is the house where they get discipline. They are supposed to have visitation with their mother, but the 13 year old never goes there, instead she goes and stays with her 28 year old sister, who lets her do anything and everything she wants. The 28 lets her date (13 year old has already "made-out" with a 17 year old boy) and the older sister does not seem to think that is a problem. She also drinks and smokes, goes out etc when she is with her. The 7 year old is dropped off at her grandparents house by the older sister.. 7 year old never sees them until Sunday when it is time for them to come back to our house...
My question is, we live in Alabama and the 13 year old has decided that she wants to move in with her older sister. The older sister has a very bad reputation (sexually) and usually has a different guy living with her every six months to a year. The 13 year old, when she comes home from her sisters, is near impossible to be around, smart mouth attitude etc. She is becoming a compulsive liar. She lies about everything now, even when you know she is and confront her, she goes nuts!!!!
My husband and I do everything for these girls. Their mother only pays $70 a month child support and does nothing more.
Any help with this would be GRATEFULLY appreciated!!! We are about at our wits end... I am afraid of what she might lie about to try to convince whoever for the reasons she wants to live there other than the obvious no rules situation. 13 year old or 7 year old have never been spanked, abused in any way at our house but they are disciplined, grounded, no TV, etc.
PLease help!!!!!!
My question is, we live in Alabama and the 13 year old has decided that she wants to move in with her older sister. The older sister has a very bad reputation (sexually) and usually has a different guy living with her every six months to a year. The 13 year old, when she comes home from her sisters, is near impossible to be around, smart mouth attitude etc. She is becoming a compulsive liar. She lies about everything now, even when you know she is and confront her, she goes nuts!!!!
My husband and I do everything for these girls. Their mother only pays $70 a month child support and does nothing more.
Any help with this would be GRATEFULLY appreciated!!! We are about at our wits end... I am afraid of what she might lie about to try to convince whoever for the reasons she wants to live there other than the obvious no rules situation. 13 year old or 7 year old have never been spanked, abused in any way at our house but they are disciplined, grounded, no TV, etc.
PLease help!!!!!!