My ex wife and I have been to court 3 times over custody and parenting time. Currently she has custody and has the children 60% of the time. Each and every time before we went to court, I made her an offer that she declined, only for her to be worse off than my offer after the judge ruled. She's the most unreasonable person I've ever known and is painfully stupid. So that's what I'm dealing with.
I'm worried my ex wife will soon take me to court to try and reduce my parenting time. I've not done anything worth reporting to my children to warrant any loss of parenting time. I'd say so if I did. So there's no issue there. But I believe she may be trying to capitalize on things I've written to her about our judge. On a few cocktail filled, Friday night dinners soon after I had recently discovered she'd been completely trashing me to our children, I wrote her a piece of my mind. And it wasn't pretty. And within those emails are paragraphs where I completely trash our judge.
Our judge is a far left radical socialist in Portland, OR who gives custody to the women 100% and has fleeced me for way over what the support calculator recommends, as well as hammering me in the divorce. She's not totally shut me out of the kids lives; I have 40% visitation time, but that's only because I'm an obviously good father and even the judge can see that.
Some will disagree with me and that's fine, but I said some jerkish things in the email about the fact she's a lesbian with no kids and she's trying to judge parents, yet has none of the parental instincts you get when you parent your own child. I said she shouldn't be allowed to judge and she's more of an activist than someone interested in what's best for the kids.
So yeah, that's brutal I know. So assuming my wife tries to use this in court, how screwed am I? That's basically my question. Please, to anyone reading this, don't waste time judging what I said to her. I'm not interested in debating that with anyone. I'm just trying to understand the potential consequences of what I wrote in the email. Thanks.
I'm worried my ex wife will soon take me to court to try and reduce my parenting time. I've not done anything worth reporting to my children to warrant any loss of parenting time. I'd say so if I did. So there's no issue there. But I believe she may be trying to capitalize on things I've written to her about our judge. On a few cocktail filled, Friday night dinners soon after I had recently discovered she'd been completely trashing me to our children, I wrote her a piece of my mind. And it wasn't pretty. And within those emails are paragraphs where I completely trash our judge.
Our judge is a far left radical socialist in Portland, OR who gives custody to the women 100% and has fleeced me for way over what the support calculator recommends, as well as hammering me in the divorce. She's not totally shut me out of the kids lives; I have 40% visitation time, but that's only because I'm an obviously good father and even the judge can see that.
Some will disagree with me and that's fine, but I said some jerkish things in the email about the fact she's a lesbian with no kids and she's trying to judge parents, yet has none of the parental instincts you get when you parent your own child. I said she shouldn't be allowed to judge and she's more of an activist than someone interested in what's best for the kids.
So yeah, that's brutal I know. So assuming my wife tries to use this in court, how screwed am I? That's basically my question. Please, to anyone reading this, don't waste time judging what I said to her. I'm not interested in debating that with anyone. I'm just trying to understand the potential consequences of what I wrote in the email. Thanks.