I have a 5yr old son who hasn't seen his dad for about 2-3 months. Before that he seen him like every other weekend. I was never married, I left him after 2yrs of being physically abused. We came up with a verbal agreement for him to pay me $200 a month for child support. He's way over do. The only way he would ever give me the money is if I had sex with him, of course I didn't. I don't feel my son is safe with him. He is a major alcholic, he does drugs and I've seen him punish my son by hitting him in his stomach and knocking the wind out of him. Do I have the right to keep him away from him if I feel its unsafe? Or do I have to go to court to settle all this crazyness?