I'll see your bank bureaucracy and offer 10 years of battle with the VA health system bureaucracy and raise you one with a recent issue with the IRS where the right hand doesn't know what the left hand is doing. I also recall 20 years of dealing with mortgage company morons when I had mortgages. Then there was a two year hostile divorce. And I have a 52 year old son who is homeless because of drug addiction and a criminal record.
Just trying to give you some perspective. What you are going through now, as bad as it seems, will eventually be resolved one way or the other and you will get over it and move on.
Thank you very much. I've been married for almost 50 years, it has not been "easy," but I can only imagine how awful it must be to go through a divorce, especially if devious actions are taken. I won't go into detals.
My brother-in-law was floating from home to home for a while, he didn't sleep on the streets, but he's a conniver. We finally refused to give him any more money no matter what because nothing he says makes sense, although it's losing something, paying others back. But now that I think about it, since it happened to me, maybe he DID lose something. But anyway, he doesn't like advice. He has a place via the government, a nice apartment so it seems, so unless he decides to leave or play around, he's doing ok.
I have learned a lot by this episode, the police are not easy to engage, I guess they're looking for active shooters. ? And I do have sympathy for them because I guess they like the action? But at least they're there sometimes. It's a troublesome world we live in.
Anyway, thanks again. Oh, and the person from Experian is also not easy to reach. So much for that. My days are now taken up with following the money (on credit cards, etc.) I just had a phishing email claiming to be from Paypal. Fortunately I learned enough to not click on any links. I called Paypal, the rep was helpful and said these scams are proliferating. And all over the dark web where people buy stolen information.
Yet there are better days coming, I sincerely believe that. (Isaiah 46 and Revelation 21)
Take care, thanks for your kind note.