My son's mother filed a request for reimbursement of medical expenses back in Oct. 2010. I've learned that none of the bills for which she seeks reimbursement have been paid and ALL have gone to collection agencies. I also have documents that prove I was not notified of the incidents during or after they occurred. I'm told that there is a family penal code requiring her to notify me of such incidents within a given time frame and she has failed to do so. Her attorney claims that she can't pay the bills and pressured my attorney and I into agreeing to pay them since the judge would, according to him, order it anyway. Is this true? We have a trial date set and I was wondering if there is any law, family or civil, that protects me, and my credit, as a private citizen. If I am indeed ordered to pay half of the unpaid bills, is there any civil/consumer law that provides me legal recourse?