My motherinlaw is 87, has dementia and lives at an assisted living. We were told that she is eligible for VA Aid and Attendance. Can you tell me how long this process takes and has anyone ever filled out this application? Based on her income and living expenses she would be negative each month. Any advice you can send is appreciated. I was told she must have less than $80K in asssets, if she has an Annuity that lists her as the annuitant but daughter is the owner is that okay or should all assets be taken out of her name. Thanks.