Like I said there is a lot of drama involved that I did not post. My aunt could care less about my grandfather. Him and I were very close when he would come to town I would reach out to my mom and my aunts to see grandpa. But my mom aunt 1 aunt ashamed because they were high as a kite but the one who took control never cared she said she really didn't want to hurt Antibes feeling but she don't want to see him. She spent more time and showed more interest in proving her dad was another man. It wasn't until she heard he had dementia my grandmother :gold digger: paid the air fare to Honolulu so she can take control. My grandpa couldn't stand my grandma. And my grandma was the puppet master. When my aunt had grandpa she never returned phone calls I wanted to see my grandpa but didn't know where she lived. Online I found an adress for her ex husband in Los Angeles and invited myself over. She lied to us and said he was doing great and they were planning a trip to San Diego but never came meanwhile he really was on his deathbed. When I heard he wasn't doing good I called and she told me I wouldn't make it in time because she was gonna pull the plug on him the night before.she told my mom that if sho up in LA shed call the police on me why? I'm not at all hostile. She never put an obituary in the paper for him. She made a cd of his so called life and left all the good years out of it only showing the last year of his life.very last pic was of him dead. 'jobs done' In Hawaii she through everything he owned in the trash. He lived with his girlfriend almost 40 years of life never married because my grandma spoiled it and being a devote catholic since he was divorced he never remarried.my aunt through her out she said she's only been with him all these years for his $. Wow who was getting into his money! My grandpa didn't have a will but he did open an account for me when I was born my aunt s mom all seen the paperwork. He had almost $200,000 in his personal account when she got to Hawaii a condo valued at $300,000 in Oahu and he still received his monthly retirement checks till the day he died last I heard over $5,000 a month. For what reason legally does she have taking my account. I was the only relative period whom he made sure when he passed I would have that. Sure she is he legal heir and his $200,000 cash and $300,000 condo weren't enough for her. She legally can take my little $30,000. She didn't divide his bank account for my smom and aunt she kept all that. She heartless my gra ndpa spent his life staring across the ocean thinking of his family abroad. He gave up on the daughters years and years befor he died. He was pissed when they showed up in Hawaii. Because he knew it was just for his money.