cehutchison87
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First, some background info.
I'm a 21 yr old female and a single mother to a 4 month old girl. My ex is 28.
I was with my ex for nearly 3 1/2 years before he ended things when our daughter was only 2 weeks.
When i found out that I was pregnant, he seemed happy. I talked to him the whole time I was in labor. He told me he loved me and would be traveling from New Mexico to Ohio to see me and the baby.
He didn't come. He has never seen her except in pictures and he is not listened on the birth certificate but she does have his last name.
Instead, when the baby was six days old, he asked for a paternity test stating that since I had missed 2 periods and gave 2 different due dates (that the doctor gave me) and because my daughter was born June 2 instead of June 16, he doesn't think she is his.
We met when I was 18 and I lost my virginity to him. I was completely faithful. Everyone but him knows just by looking at my child that she is his.
Before October 18th, the last time we had talked was July 7.
Last night we got into an argument and he said he should go to court and press charges for rape.
I think it's completely ridiculous because he ALWAYS consented. But he insists because we (his friends, himself and myself) would joke about me being on top, that I raped him.
I'm afraid that he'll turn this whole thing around and somehow get my daughter taken away from me even though I have done nothing wrong.
If he did try to say I raped him, would this even hold up in court? Can he do anything to take my daughter from me? I take great care of her. She has a house over her head, food, she's clean and all the other necessities to survive.
Plenty of people, even his former sister-in-law, has told me not to worry about it but I can't help it. It would kill me if my child was taken from me.
All help is appreciated.
I'm a 21 yr old female and a single mother to a 4 month old girl. My ex is 28.
I was with my ex for nearly 3 1/2 years before he ended things when our daughter was only 2 weeks.
When i found out that I was pregnant, he seemed happy. I talked to him the whole time I was in labor. He told me he loved me and would be traveling from New Mexico to Ohio to see me and the baby.
He didn't come. He has never seen her except in pictures and he is not listened on the birth certificate but she does have his last name.
Instead, when the baby was six days old, he asked for a paternity test stating that since I had missed 2 periods and gave 2 different due dates (that the doctor gave me) and because my daughter was born June 2 instead of June 16, he doesn't think she is his.
We met when I was 18 and I lost my virginity to him. I was completely faithful. Everyone but him knows just by looking at my child that she is his.
Before October 18th, the last time we had talked was July 7.
Last night we got into an argument and he said he should go to court and press charges for rape.
I think it's completely ridiculous because he ALWAYS consented. But he insists because we (his friends, himself and myself) would joke about me being on top, that I raped him.
I'm afraid that he'll turn this whole thing around and somehow get my daughter taken away from me even though I have done nothing wrong.
If he did try to say I raped him, would this even hold up in court? Can he do anything to take my daughter from me? I take great care of her. She has a house over her head, food, she's clean and all the other necessities to survive.
Plenty of people, even his former sister-in-law, has told me not to worry about it but I can't help it. It would kill me if my child was taken from me.
All help is appreciated.
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