Starryskye80
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My husband wants to adopt my 12 year old son. He has helped me raise him since he was 8 months old. My son's biological father has never had contact with my son. I have dug and dug, and finally was able to get his address from his family. He is (supposedly) dying, living in an SRO hotel in California. I also have heard that he may not be mentally stable. I have the paperwork to send, but I believe the state of Vt requires the forms be filled out in front of a judge or notary, and I don't believe he would do that. I also wanted to see his criminal record, to use as evidence, but all I can find is case numbers and California is not very open about disclosing these things.
My son knows my husband is not his bio dad, but said that he is his father and has no desire to know anything about my exes family or even his name. What advice can you offer?
My son knows my husband is not his bio dad, but said that he is his father and has no desire to know anything about my exes family or even his name. What advice can you offer?