My boyfriend has 2 children (a boy and a girl) that he had to give custody up almost 7 years ago and has not been able to contact them. They were placed in foster care and were adopted by the foster family. His father (their grandfather) has been able to have contact with them and has seen them and has had the boy staying with him this summer. The plan was to go back to the adopted family before school but during this trip to granddads the adopted family has decided to dissolve their custody of ONLY the boy. They state that he’s aggressive and unstable and makes their home “unbearable”- which is not the case of how the grandfather says he acts. So they put the grandfather in a position to either adopt himself or put the boy back into foster care... at 15... the grandfather doesn’t have the energy or health to have a 15 year old full time. I don’t know the legality of my boyfriend getting custody back or what that entails ( sure every case is different). I am wondering if there’s any way for me to adopt? He is going to be thrown back into foster care at 15 by himself. He is being separated from his sister (though from what I know they do not get along). These people are just washing their hands of this child and i really can’t let him be thrown back into the foster system.