I am an expecting father, who is no longer with the mother to be. As such she is threatening to move out of state before she gives birth. Also as retaliation for the two of us splitting she plans to sign another man's name on the birth certificate and give my child his last name. What can I do if anything to stop her from fleeing the state (NY)?
This will be my first child and she knows being separated from my son/daughter will hurt me (limiting the time I can spend with them). All of this is happening because I refuse to give her another chance at a relationship. I have emails and text messages to which she has stated what she plans to do as well as her telling me, if I come around her or call her she will file an order of protection against me. Now I have never threaten or physically touch her in any misappropriate way. I feel somewhat of an underdog because she is a NYC school safety officer and being so she has alot of NYPD friends. What can I do?
There is one thing I did forget.....because of her age (36 and the fact she is high risk) she does have to take an amniocentesis test at 16 weeks. Now I am not sure but I do believe they can do a DNA test off the fluid, the real question is how would I get access to the fluid to do a paternity test? Especially if NotSunkYet is correct and I need to stay away from her to protect myself from getting an false order placed against me.
This will be my first child and she knows being separated from my son/daughter will hurt me (limiting the time I can spend with them). All of this is happening because I refuse to give her another chance at a relationship. I have emails and text messages to which she has stated what she plans to do as well as her telling me, if I come around her or call her she will file an order of protection against me. Now I have never threaten or physically touch her in any misappropriate way. I feel somewhat of an underdog because she is a NYC school safety officer and being so she has alot of NYPD friends. What can I do?
There is one thing I did forget.....because of her age (36 and the fact she is high risk) she does have to take an amniocentesis test at 16 weeks. Now I am not sure but I do believe they can do a DNA test off the fluid, the real question is how would I get access to the fluid to do a paternity test? Especially if NotSunkYet is correct and I need to stay away from her to protect myself from getting an false order placed against me.
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